Blog Three
Our relationship has really grown. My best friend and I are like Salt and Pepper, whenever you see one of us you know that the other is not far behind. Ashley asked me one day, “If I go back to Canada what will you do?” Naturally me being me, I was like you aren’t going anywhere, your tied to me for life. I knew she was serious because as she turned around, her facial expression told it all. By far the hardest question she had ever asked me. I didn’t know what to say because she is really the only person that I got in my life that will be there for me no matter what. Joking around I said, “Well I guess I will be living on the streets.” But she wanted a serious answer, and I could not give one to her. My mom is gone, my family could care less about me, and now my best friend wants to move back to Canada. Well I started to think but nothing came to my mind. All I could think about is all the good and bad times we had. How when I was mad at my mother, Ashley would come get me and we’d just ride around. Talking about how that certain situation could have played out if something had never been said or done. How while in high school we just used to be acting a fool. How we watch each other grow up and become the mature women that we are. Just to think of my best friend going back to stay in Canada, makes me feel like I would have no one after she leaves. She is my support system, she is my sister, she is my friend, the best friend that I have ever had.
This sounds so much like me and my best friend, we've actually been together for 25 years and can't stay mad at each other for two seconds. With situations as your own, no one ever wants to feel alone and you always need support to get through everything. Have you considered maybe going to Canada with her?? Are there circumstances that forcing her to go back? I know that is hard but I'm sure you both can get through this and together just continue to have faith!!
ReplyDeleteI have one like yours too. Our mothers are best friends also. We were born 1 month and 1 day apart. It's almost like we were destined to be together as friends. I hope Ashley doesn't leave you here alone, it sounds like you are veryu close, and you need her. I love the picture of the 2 of you! That's really cool.
ReplyDeleteGreat picture of you and Ashley, Im sorry to hear that Ashley wants to move back to Canada, why did she want to move back? Is there any opportunity for you there? Can you go to college there? It sounds like you might want to look into some things.
ReplyDeleteWow! Now that a true friend. Its so difficult to find a friend these days who will be by your side no matter what. Even if she does move, I must say that cell phones will allow your relationship to continue. My sister is my best friend and we talk over the phone at least 2 or 3 times a day. I wish she was here, but our relationship is just as strong.
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